Sunday, June 15, 2008

Las Viudas

At the top of Mt Roberts in Juneau, Alaska, I met four people—three women and one man. They were speaking Spanish, and I said to Alyce that they were not from Mexico, probably somewhere in South America. So I asked them, just to be sure, and yes, they were from Peru, the place of the purest Spanish, they told me, and, apparently, the cultural seat of the universe, etc., etc. But I couldn’t really fault them for their national pride.

As we chatted, my Spanish faltering at times but their charity growing, one of the women asked if I traveled a lot. “No,” I said, “soy viuda.”

“Somos viudas también,” two of them said. "We are also widows, and she [pointing to the third] was a widow until she married my brother." Then he spoke up, putting his arm around her (she must have had extensive face work because she had the Wayne Newton permanent smile, and she wore a lot of makeup, all in an effort to appear younger; can’t fault her for that, either), “She’s my second wife.”

I said, “Claro,” meaning, “Of course,” meaning also that I had made certain assumptions.

The two widows then told me they travel extensively, go all over together, having great fun and good companionship. “You should find a widow, too,” they told me--a thought I had never entertained. Two or three came to mind, all in their 80s.

I guess I’ll have to start looking for a younger widow. Or not.

2 comments:

jdarring said...

My grandma was an early widow, as I think you know, and she traveled quite extensively, too, for a time, with her widowed sister, Marie. When my dad died, she advised my mom to go on a trip every six months or so. Apparently, it helped her cope, gave her something fun to look forward to.

Wendy said...

My mother is now a widow, and she does not like the word. Who would. But she did say in our last talk that she couldn't explain it, but when she awoke that morning, she felt like her old self again. However, I don't think she wants to travel again, ever, without Daniel.